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Updated: 10-06-2007

Short Story

I am: bisexual, polyamorous, married, open, honest, moody, spoiled, flirty, witty, sarcastic, ENFP (Extraverted iNtuitive Feeling Perceiving), and easily bored.

Likes: Good music, good movies, massages, reading, making new friends, answering questions, thunderstorms, water, kisses, the smell of laundry right out of the dryer, dimples, puppy kisses, candy corn and cuddling.

Dislikes: Needles, heights, shallowness, dishonesty, cheaters, insecurity, organized religion, politics, and egomaniacs.

The Novel

I've been happily married to a wonderful man for 8 years. We have 5 children, and have chosen a lifestyle different from most, we practice polyamory. Polyamory literally means multiple loves. We have relationships with other people outside our marriage.(If you have questions, feel free to ask) My husband is my best friend and there is nothing I have ever kept hidden from him. Our marriage is built on trust, love, and honesty.

I do not condone cheating and will never be part of any relationship that deceives someone else in any way. So married men wanting to cheat, look elsewhere and please don't waste my time or yours.

I am bisexual, I have had sexual encounters with females in the past and have enjoyed each and every moment of them, however the time has come when I want something more. I would like the chance to explore the emotional aspect of a relationship with another female. While being involved with my husband is not required, it would definitely be a big plus.

Why am I here? Entertainment of course! I do love a good conversation whether it is serious or just random nothingness. Friends. Any good relationship is built on friendship. If I find nothing but a couple of new friends here, I'll be more than happy with that.

I'm very outgoing and enjoy pushing my boundaries. I love to flirt and can talk for hours if stimulated by the right person(s).

I'm currently in cosmetology school, which is taking up a *lot* of my time.

Baking - I adore homemade chocolate chip cookies and cheesecake.

Card Games - Usually spades, hearts or poker

Listening - I enjoy listening to friends and giving advice when asked

Talking - I can talk for hours if given the opportunity and good company

Flirting - mrawr

My smile and my hair, depending on the week and the color of it.

Books: Harry Potter, VC Andrews, Sylvia Browne. Different types of educational books, my taste varies depending on my current interests :)

Movies: Same with books, my taste varies. Anything with Julia Styles is awesomeness, Lord of The Rings, Chronicles of Riddick, Pitch Black, Harry Potter, Sound of Music, etc.

Music: I listen to a little of everything. Some of my favorites would be Eminem, Savage Garden, Depeche Mode, The Postal Service, 3 Doors Down, Evanescence, and Erasure.

*If you know who The Birthday Massacre or Fury in the Slaughterhouse are and like their music, we need to talk ;)

Food: I'm as picky about my food as I am my men ;) Love homemade Mexican food and Italian. I love coffee, warm chocolate chip cookies, cheesecake, homemade enchiladas, toast with hot chocolate and marshmallows, warm homemade flour tortillas with butter, my husbands homemade biscuits and sausage gravy and I'm a slut for good pizza and the right donut.

I hate onions and lettuce and I'm allergic to paprika (Yes, it sucks)

Warning: I'm cheating and grouping things ;-)

1) Family and Friends

2) Nicotine, Caffeine and Sex (my 3 addictions)

3) Good food

4) Good Conversation

5) Humor - Life is all about laughing

6) Internet - with a computer

What doors tomorrow will open.

Playing WoW, doing homework, or cleaning house. My husband usually works Friday nights, so it's not often I'm out and about doing anything interesting.

I'm not as much of a spoiled bitch as I used to be. I guess in my old age I don't have as much of a fight as I used to ;)

There's not anything I won't tell somebody, it's more a matter of how soon they earn my trust.

I love to talk to new people and make friends. Don't hesitate to message me if you're just looking for conversation or have questions about who I am or polyamory :) Below is just a summary of what I would like to find. Don't let this intimidate you or keep you from contacting me :)

Requests

I'm looking for someone who can accept me for who and what I am, keep my interest, hold an intelligent conversation, yet be a kid at times and watch cartoons or play a video game. Someone who isn't afraid to try new things. Sense of humor and an understanding of sarcasm are musts. I want complete honesty, even when the truth hurts and I want someone who will stand up to me and put me in my place at the rare times that i need it

Guys:

Looks: I like a guy who knows how to take care of himself and present himself. I don't expect you to be dressed in the latest fashion trends, but I do expect you to shower, brush your teeth and groom yourself on a daily basis. I'm an absolute sucker for a baby face, add dimples to that and I'm putty in your hands. I adore a smile that can chase away the clouds on a rainy day, along with eyes that have a sparkle able to light up any room. I like a guy to carry himself with confidence and to be self assured. There's not much in regards to looks that I'm particular about and there are no "musts" other than hygiene. I tend to be attracted to someone based on their personality... so....onto personality!

Personality: A guy who knows how to treat a female. Someone who is outgoing, not afraid to speak his mind, and can hold an intelligent conversation. I like my guys with a playful side to them, but not to the point of immaturity. I'm always up for a good pillow fight in the middle of Walmart, however, a food fight in a nice restaurant is not my idea of a good time. A sense of humor and a sense of sarcasm are worth big points, however you must know how to be serious and have an adult conversation as well. You must be willing to lavish me with attention, yet give me my space when it's needed as well. Don't worry, I'm not shy about telling you when I need space and when I don't. Honesty, honesty, honesty is an absolute must. Someone who can keep up with my flirty nature and not be jealous or intimidated by it.

*note: Not all of the above is set in stone, it may be modified at anytime when desired.

Don't message me if any of the following apply!

You're an asshole. 'Nuff said.

You're looking to cheat on your current spouse/girlfriend/SO. I do not, and will not, ever condone cheating.

You're horny and want to cyber. I don't cyber with random guys who happen to message me with hardons, don't ask and don't try.

I don't send my nudies to random people who just ask. I don't care how "cute" or "hot" you think I am.

If you don't live within 200 miles of me, or plan to travel often, don't waste my time or yours.

You're looking for a 1 night stand or quick fling.

If you've made it this far and you're still interested, keep one thing in mind. I'm easy, but never cheap ;)

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